Break ups suck. How do you rebound from a break up?

[Butters]

You just do.

 

[Eli26]

Some posts got deleted, what's up with that?

Anyway, I am feeling much better today. I can't believe how much better I am feeling. Appetite is still not there. But I finally had a good sleep for the first time in 3 days.

 

[The Ween]

aka he needs to get laid.

Not really. He just needs to stop looking at all women like he has to marry them or something. Some girls are fun to date, some may turn out to be more than that.

 

[Boba Ben]

Some posts got deleted, what's up with that?

Anyway, I am feeling much better today. I can't believe how much better I am feeling. Appetite is still not there. But I finally had a good sleep for the first time in 3 days.

I'm glad to hear it.

Not really. He just needs to stop looking at all women like he has to marry them or something. Some girls are fun to date, some may turn out to be more than that.

Makes sense, but for a certain type of guy, it can be difficult. I know it is for me. I don't feel right about it unless I see the other person as someone I could potentially have a future with. If I know off the bat that I could never really care about the person, I don't feel right about it.

 

[DinoLast]

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLxKtzqTbow[/ame]

 

[The Ween]

I'm glad to hear it.



Makes sense, but for a certain type of guy, it can be difficult. I know it is for me. I don't feel right about it unless I see the other person as someone I could potentially have a future with. If I know off the bat that I could never really care about the person, I don't feel right about it.

Oh I understand and if you don't like the person from the get go, don't bother. But I just get this feeling that he's judging women from the get go that they wouldn't be a potential mate, so he's passing. That can grow with time. I usually become friends with guys before I go any farther, but you have to open yourself up to at least THAT first.

 

[The Ween]

Some posts got deleted, what's up with that?

Anyway, I am feeling much better today. I can't believe how much better I am feeling. Appetite is still not there. But I finally had a good sleep for the first time in 3 days.

That's great! No go out with friends and have a good time tonight!

 

[crows]

aka he needs to get laid.

 

[Frank]

Easy way to learn about your woman:

1. Who your girl wants to be like: Look at her friends.

2. What she's gonna look like like in 25 years: Look at her mom.

3. The most important thing in your relationship after the thrill is gone: Take out your wallet and open it. If you have pictures of your children, place a credit card in front of them.

Of course, I'm cynical but I've been around the block a few times. Be glad when all a break up means is an ex-girlfriend. Do what you do best and if another girl comes along who is on your wavelength, let it happen. Do not chase! Once you lose interest you better hope you didn't already "put a ring on it." Ex-wives ought to be considered bio-weapons.

 

[The Ween]

Easy way to learn about your woman:

1. Who your girl wants to be like: Look at her friends.

2. What she's gonna look like like in 25 years: Look at her mom.

3. The most important thing in your relationship after the thrill is gone: Take out your wallet and open it. If you have pictures of your children, place a credit card in front of them.

Of course, I'm cynical but I've been around the block a few times. Be glad when all a break up means is an ex-girlfriend. Do what you do best and if another girl comes along who is on your wavelength, let it happen. Do not chase! Once you lose interest you better hope you didn't already "put a ring on it." Ex-wives ought to be considered bio-weapons.

I am nothing like my friends, that's why I don't hang with them that much. They don't like the same things that I do. And I look nothing at all like my mother except for her height.

I would suggest Frank that you never get married again. I don't mean that as a slap or anything, it just appears that it's not for you.

 

[Vader AL]

Easy way to learn about your woman:

1. Who your girl wants to be like: Look at her friends.

2. What she's gonna look like like in 25 years: Look at her mom.

3. The most important thing in your relationship after the thrill is gone: Take out your wallet and open it. If you have pictures of your children, place a credit card in front of them.

Of course, I'm cynical but I've been around the block a few times. Be glad when all a break up means is an ex-girlfriend. Do what you do best and if another girl comes along who is on your wavelength, let it happen. Do not chase! Once you lose interest you better hope you didn't already "put a ring on it." Ex-wives ought to be considered bio-weapons.

Truth to that.

To #1 I would add look at her family...apple usually never falls far from the tree.

 

[crows]

 

[The Ween]

So blackmask, how did they answer your question?

 

[Frank]

I am nothing like my friends, that's why I don't hang with them that much. They don't like the same things that I do.

Conversely if you were, you'd hang out alot more. Long enough for a prospective mate to observe their behaviors.

And I look nothing at all like my mother except for her height.

Then please refer to your father's mother.

But I digress, I don't think that's entirely fair. A decent personality is obviously the most important feature for anyone really and far too few of us work on the tough stuff.

Unfortunately, you ladies tend to be so absolutely bat____ paranoid about your looks (especially the ones that get alot of attention early on) that when they start to fade, the foundation of what you thought was your personality is destroyed. This introduces a few uncomfortable life adjustments, and we men tend to bear the brunt of it. The easier the transition is for you gals, the easier it is for us too!

I would suggest Frank that you never get married again. I don't mean that as a slap or anything, it just appears that it's not for you.

There might be some truth in that. I'm not looking for trouble as much as I used to.

Truth to that.

To #1 I would add look at her family...apple usually never falls far from the tree.

Sure, but her family is going to show you the archetypes she has learned to live with. Women have a tendency to mirror their friends and get enmeshed much more often than men do. That's why giving "space" ist verboten fur die Frauen!

 

[crows]

So blackmask, how did they answer your question?

they said it Wasn't weird

 

[fosing]

Not really. He just needs to stop looking at all women like he has to marry them or something. Some girls are fun to date, some may turn out to be more than that.

well, that's because he sounds like putting vajayjay on a pedestal.
[ame="https://youtu.be/XpSW3nYA_Ds"]https://youtu.be/XpSW3nYA_Ds[/ame]

 

[TotalDominAsian]

Remember this feeling and cherish it. Use it as fuel. In my case, I always hit the gym hard.

 

[user 1190]

hans gruber in pg 12.

Your missing a critical part though. What good are hookers without blow.

 

[devilof76]

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xxzs3lGSu2U[/ame]

All I have to say.

 

[Adoptedscot]

Unfortunately, you ladies tend to be so absolutely bat____ paranoid about your looks (especially the ones that get alot of attention early on) that when they start to fade, the foundation of what you thought was your personality is destroyed. This introduces a few uncomfortable life adjustments, and we men tend to bear the brunt of it. The easier the transition is for you gals, the easier it is for us too!

cos you NEVER see a guy trying to look and feel better with a nice comb over once the baldness sets in, or a hair piece, or Botox, or lifts in their shoes to increase height, or heaven forbid even manicures.
Sure, fellas aren't paranoid at all

A few uncomfortable life adjustments indeed
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