gibby
Super Freak
re: (galactiboy's Cantina) "Where everybody knows your name..."
So which happened first...the online thing or this?
Almost sounds like karma - the one girl u liked left you at the theater, while the one you didn't like wanted to bang you silly.
I think bad karma is coming at me because I possibly let one get away...
I knew a girl, and had a lot in common with her. I was NEVER interested in her romantically, but she had it for me big-time. Her friend kept telling me how crazy she was about me, but I truly wasn't interested. Then I planned a trip to Las Vegas. She lived in L.A. She was really twisting my arm to come visit me. Finally I gave in, and said she could. She was gonna stay in my room, but just for the one night. Well, she brought booze with her and intentionally got me drunk. But I knew what she was doing. I wasn't that drunk. However, I went along with it, and slept with her. After that, she thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. I still just wanted to be friends, but she wanted so much more. The hard part was, we had SOOOO much in common! But I just wasn't interested. Besides the lack of attraction, these were negative factors:
1) She lived in L.A., I lived in Milwaukee.
2) She was really really really into video games. I'm talking hard core, playing 12-16 hours a day.
3) She was unemployed (hence, the ability to play games 12-16 hours a day)
4) She was heavily in debt (partly due to being unemployed)
5) I hesitate to list this one, but I'm being honest here. She was unable to have kids, because she previously had cancer. Now, if this was someone I loved, I could deal with this. But I really wasn't into her, and this factor didn't help.
When I ended things, she didn't take it well. I felt terrible about it. Every now and then I think to myself that maybe I'll never do better than her. I've never met anyone that cared that much about me. But unfortunately it wasn't also the reverse.
So which happened first...the online thing or this?
Almost sounds like karma - the one girl u liked left you at the theater, while the one you didn't like wanted to bang you silly.