I thought it looked horrible before it arrived too, and still I agree that many pictures make it look as ridiculous you say, but having it in hand I honestly find it perfectly fine. If it did turn out as poorly as I was expecting, in my case I would've just displayed without it but so far, since receiving it, he's been standing always with his cap on head, I'm happy with it.
It seems actually that everyone agrees that the hat looks nuts in pictures and was worried by it but is there anyone who has it in hand now that still finds it so terrible? I don't mean that as a rhetorical question, I mean really is there anyone who has it in-hand who really hates the cap?