How do you protect your collection before you get married? Divorce can kill a hobby!

[Bamboota]

Just don't do it man....marriage is a hoax...It never works out.
Thats the best way to protect not only ur collection, ur life.

To me, marriage is a bond, a promise, a vow to the other person that you will be the single thing that they can count on all of their life.

U don't need marriage for any of this.....ur point is invalid.


P.S....The only thing good about marriage is that fat tax return! Cha Ching!$$$$$$

 

[Darth Cruel]

Just don't do it man....marriage is a hoax...It never works out.
Thats the best way to protect not only ur collection, ur life.



U don't need marriage for any of this.....ur point is invalid.


P.S....The only thing good about marriage is that fat tax return! Cha Ching!$$$$$$

What do you mean you don't need marriage for any of that. That IS the marriage. The piece of paper you get when you register your marriage is not the marriage and THAT you do not need. The ceremony you go through to celebrate the marriage is not the marriage and THAT you do not need. The marriage is the intangible union between the two people. The bond that is sealed by the vow. And that is the absolute fundamental idea of marriage.

 

[The Ringer]

Keep is secret.

 

[BadMoon]

Amen brother! It most certainly is not up to me to change it. I do feel agreat sense of disappointment, though, that instead of divorce being a last resort, so many people are preparing for it while they are planning the wedding, now. It just seems to me that that is starting the marriage off with a handicap.

I haven't lost the faith though. I will find the right woman. I remember when my wife was moving stuff out and she asked if I seen her wedding dress. My reply?

"Why do you need that? Do you need a constant reminder of how you weren't able to keep your vows?"

 

[Bamboota]

What do you mean you don't need marriage for any of that. That IS the marriage. The piece of paper you get when you register your marriage is not the marriage and THAT you do not need. The ceremony you go through to celebrate the marriage is not the marriage and THAT you do not need. The marriage is the intangible union between the two people. The bond that is sealed by the vow. And that is the absolute fundamental idea of marriage.

Nope....thats called two people who love eachother and trust eachother and wants to be with eachother for the rest of they're lives. You don't need marriage for that.

And u can "celebrate " your bond, by throwing a huge as BBQ.

 

[Bamboota]

I haven't lost the faith though. I will find the right woman. I remember when my wife was moving stuff out and she asked if I seen her wedding dress. My reply?

"Why do you need that? Do you need a constant reminder of how you weren't able to keep your vows?"

BOOM GOES THE DYNAMITE!

 

[LOTRFan]

Keep is secret.

Keep it safe.

 

[Darth Cruel]

I haven't lost the faith though. I will find the right woman. I remember when my wife was moving stuff out and she asked if I seen her wedding dress. My reply?

"Why do you need that? Do you need a constant reminder of how you weren't able to keep your vows?"

I will give you a hint on how to know if she is the one.

Your most-thought thought will be something like this:

"Damn! It pisses me off how much she gets away with knowing that I will never leave!"

 

[Darth Cruel]

Nope....thats called two people who love eachother and trust eachother and wants to be with eachother for the rest of they're lives. You don't need marriage for that.

And u can "celebrate " your bond, by throwing a huge as BBQ.

Bam...that IS a marriage.

 

[mr.thrifty]

Darth Cruel agrees then......... commit but don't sign any paperwork...

 

[Skiman]

Darth Cruel agrees then......... commit but don't sign any paperwork...

 

[Darth Cruel]

Darth Cruel agrees then......... commit but don't sign any paperwork...

LOL...I am confused...didn't I say it first?

 

[Bamboota]

Darth Cruel agrees then......... commit but don't sign any paperwork...

See...thats what I'm trying to say. I don't believe u need to sign any paper work to commit to someone.

But I mean...if your super happy that your married Darth, then more power to yeah....I'm not saying it's wrong....

I'm just gonna avoid the risk of a marriage going inevitably sour.

I might get married if I was with a person for about 10+ years...just to get over with it and like i said, to get that FAT Tax Return! Cha Ching$$$

But it's not my priority.

I hope we're still Best Friends Forever Cruel!

 

[karamazov80]

Since this thread has moved way off topic already, in my opinion, marriage should not take place until the "lustful" love is no longer a major factor. That can last a while, and clouds folks' judgment. They think that is real love, but of course, it's just hormones and our drive to make babies. Wait until that passes. You can still desire your spouse, but that has to be secondary.

It is still a crap-shoot, of course, no matter what. In theory, I would agree with Cruel that you won't get married unless you are 99.99% sure that things will work out forever. But there are too many variables. No one knows what the future holds. But you can improve your odds by making sure that your spouse is a true companion, and not just a sex object that you like having around. If that's your reason, and then that goes, what do you have left? Maybe you build a deeper relationship beyond that over time, but it's no guarantee. I think that's why the vast bulk of my acquaintances who don't stay together end up having to break it off.

 

[jonny88]

well the best would be a prenup just for your collection.if you dont do that and down the road you know your getting a divorce you and think she will want half of the price of your collection you can do it the shady way by taking your collection and put it in storage or at a friends house and make a fake bill of sale and say you sold your collection to a friend,and after the divorce go and get your collection back.but your collection is no different then any assets men have and getting married will put those assets in danger if you get divorced.im 22 and have 2 muscle cars a dirt bike,snow machine,boat and a truck,and my small collection and if l got married then divorced tommorow then she would be entitled to half all that stuff,thats just the way marriage is.

 

[The Ringer]

Keep it safe.

The inner nerd was wanting me to type those three words.

 

[mr.thrifty]

LOL...I am confused...didn't I say it first?

Nope, it was me...

Who said you have to get married to be "serious"??

The advice I give is above par...













My taking it.....well, let's not talk about that.......

 

[Darth Cruel]

Since this thread has moved way off topic already, in my opinion, marriage should not take place until the "lustful" love is no longer a major factor. That can last a while, and clouds folks' judgment. They think that is real love, but of course, it's just hormones and our drive to make babies. Wait until that passes. You can still desire your spouse, but that has to be secondary.

It is still a crap-shoot, of course, no matter what. In theory, I would agree with Cruel that you won't get married unless you are 99.99% sure that things will work out forever. But there are too many variables. No one knows what the future holds. But you can improve your odds by making sure that your spouse is a true companion, and not just a sex object that you like having around. If that's your reason, and then that goes, what do you have left? Maybe you build a deeper relationship beyond that over time, but it's no guarantee. I think that's why the vast bulk of my acquaintances who don't stay together end up having to break it off.

Yes, I am certainly not trying to say that divorce could or should be abolished. But I honestly believe that the divorce rate could be knocked down to 10% or less without an unreasonable effort.

 

[SnakeDoctor]

im 22 and have 2 muscle cars a dirt bike,snow machine,boat and a truck,and my small collection and if l got married then divorced tommorow then she would be entitled to half all that stuff,thats just the way marriage is.

You're wrong. If you own something before you're married, it is yours alone if the marriage dissolves. Anything bought with community property DURING the marriage is divided on divorce.

SnakeDoc

 

[Skiman]

You're wrong. If you own something before you're married, it is yours alone if the marriage dissolves. Anything bought with community property DURING the marriage is divided on divorce.

SnakeDoc

I agree.

Skiman