How do you protect your collection before you get married? Divorce can kill a hobby!

[Devil_666]

not living together first is risky.thats were you find out the person habits good or bad.

True. I hear you. But I've known people who lived together and had no problems. Until they decided to tie the knot. Then everything changed (according to them) and then their relationships dissolved. So there's no telling.

 

[FanGirlCollector]

I knew my husband 5 months before we got engaged. Then we bought a house (before we got married). THATS when I found out just how much crap he actually collects! I thought it was cool to have a husband collector, except, we have no garage now! Boy, I wish I had never suggested getting rid of the storage locker! But I would never ever want to take his stuff in a divorce. Even if I was pissed. just me tho....

 

[Silent December]

I knew my husband 5 months before we got engaged. Then we bought a house (before we got married). THATS when I found out just how much crap he actually collects! I thought it was cool to have a husband collector, except, we have no garage now! Boy, I wish I had never suggested getting rid of the storage locker! But I would never ever want to take his stuff in a divorce. Even if I was pissed. just me tho....

That's awesome of you FGC, if only all wives were like you

 

[FanGirlCollector]

That's awesome of you FGC, if only all wives were like you

Aw. I just understand how important a passion is. Theres other ways to take revenge.

LOL- im SO joking!!!!!!

 

[ArmoredFoe]

Aw. I just understand how important a passion is. Theres other ways to take revenge.

LOL- im SO joking!!!!!!

...oh my goodness, I scared to even think about what other ways there are...

 

[jonny88]

...oh my goodness, I scared to even think about what other ways there are...

there is plenty , the collection is peanuts.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

there is plenty , the collection is peanuts.

Total troof!!!!

 

[LaMelnik]

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts. I so wish someone would have slapped some sense into me when I got married at 23.

Enjoy your 20's to the fullest, once you hit your 30's then think about settling down. But don't think about it too much

 

[Silent December]

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts. I so wish someone would have slapped some sense into me when I got married at 23.

Enjoy your 20's to the fullest, once you hit your 30's then think about settling down. But don't think about it too much

where were you with this advise 6 years ago

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts. I so wish someone would have slapped some sense into me when I got married at 23.

Enjoy your 20's to the fullest, once you hit your 30's then think about settling down. But don't think about it too much

I think that varies for everyone! Yes I agree that there are some things that you need to get out of your system while you're in the early 20's (drinking, dating, spending). But I've been through all that and I feel ready for a commitment (with the right person of course). But then again, I'm 29 now and I'm creeping up on that 30 yr old mark.....

But I will comment also (which I'm sure MANY people will agree) that the older you get, the HARDER it is to find a great partner. It's like my new favorite saying......

"Girls are like parking lots. All the good ones are taken, and the only ones left are handicapped"....

(this of course doesn't apply to any of the fellow lady freaks here though you all just live too far away Or in Sam's case, too busy! .

 

[mr.thrifty]

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts.

 

[daikkenaurora]

are u serious daik, a marriage is all about both parties being able to communicate and understand each other. Having a gun weakens the relationship and makes the issues bigger. As for the question you need to tell your squeeze that she has to respect your property, you worked hard for that collection and it is your part not hers. If you bought before the marriage your good, its after that kills everyone.

A gun says that and much more.

 

[Skiman]

I knew my husband 5 months before we got engaged. Then we bought a house (before we got married). THATS when I found out just how much crap he actually collects! I thought it was cool to have a husband collector, except, we have no garage now! Boy, I wish I had never suggested getting rid of the storage locker! But I would never ever want to take his stuff in a divorce. Even if I was pissed. just me tho....

It's the same way my wife thinks.

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts. I so wish someone would have slapped some sense into me when I got married at 23.

Enjoy your 20's to the fullest, once you hit your 30's then think about settling down. But don't think about it too much

Exactly what I did, listen to this man, he knows his stuff about marriages

 

[Trustey]

A gun says that and much more.

Psychohhhhh....

 

[Skiman]

Pretty much....

 

[Boba Ben]

Psychohhhhh....

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[Master Wayne]

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BEST PART of the movie!!

 

[daikkenaurora]

Psychohhhhh....

Better than losing your collection like some sap.

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Billy Madison is one of the worst movies he ever made.

 

[SnakeDoctor]

Any guy thinking about marriage before they are 30 needs a kick in the nuts. I so wish someone would have slapped some sense into me when I got married at 23.

Enjoy your 20's to the fullest, once you hit your 30's then think about settling down. But don't think about it too much

Eh. If you find a good girl, it ain't a bad idea to lock her in. Plus, it saves the hassle of getting gussied up and trolling bars to get laid ... just gotta roll over.

I got married at 24, and never regretted it.

SnakeDoc

 

[Skiman]

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that was perfect.