Pre-ordering on eBay can be risky like others have said. I'd just use a reputable online etailer.
I do it all the time, my whole collection is from ebay. iv never been Screwed. just pick the trusted People
Good shipped
ABC express
Secret Compass
I've dealt with Goodshipped and ABC and there are many more, can't say I've heard of Secret Compass, but once you spend time looking at various auctions, tracking them, and following up on feedback people leave, you soon realise that these ebay vendors are really just on line retailers.
No no no. The fact that they have so many sales and still hold a high rating, plus they have been doing this for years doesn't guarantee that your transaction will go smoothly. It's like that with any long distance transaction. The language barrier, overseas customs and the peoples' ways of life can be a barrier, but mostly able to be overcome, should you even need to navigate that course. These blokes want to keep and build a good reputation.
As when first using ebay. There is trepidation. When shipping from an overseas country, there is trepidation. The unknown. Fear. Loosing money, items, what could be, what could happen. Are you prepared? Can you feel comfortable relying on trust? On the trust of a stranger? Most times never a problem. Problems are rare. Problems, no matter how small, are amplified by distance and time. Any small problem is as big of a hassle as a big problem. That's the problem.
Trust isn't security, and it's not what you're paying for. If you want security then you're not getting any. Not from ebay. They turn a blind eye to their own rules. Ebay rules aren't necessarily laws to live by. Really these guys are safe. Doesn't mean hard times can't hit them and wipe them out at any moment. Much of their business will have been taken away by Sideshow. Some things are out of everybodies hands. Pay for insurance if you think it will ease your mind any.
There retailer/vendors want to sell and ship the items to you as soon as they can. It's the company producing the items that cause the 'pre-order to delivery' date to blow out. If not for Sideshow taking on distribution, and these manufacturing companies trusting in Sideshow to do it, then buying from exactly these sellers is what you'd all be looking at. It's what you have to look at when Sideshow aren't stocking certain items. Still, you're lucky enough to have many other avenues such as T2, BBTS, Razors Edge, Alter Ego and the like.
Pre-ordering is safe. As safe as how comfortable you feel about it. Most would have the experience that they wonder how many transactions are they going to have before one is a bummer. Same as any where.