My girlfriend and I broke up.

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Haven't read this whole thread, but all I can say (and mean) is that although you may think now this is the worst pain ever, you will be smilling before you know.
 
If she's not going to accept every part of you (i.e. your hobby) then I say screw her. There's bigger fish and at all that, but ultimately you have to do what's best for you. Just my $0.02.
 
I have mixed feelings. I am very sad because I wanted to marry this woman, and she wanted to have kids. We loved eachother a lot.

Sadly I found out that love isn't everything.

Having said that, I will miss her but we had a pretty ugly fight tonight. I said some pretty mean things I won't be able to take back.

I said I wanted to end it because...

1. She wants me to sell my stuff and constantly puts it down and calls it crap.

2. She hates my cats and wants me to get rid of them, yet they have been a part of my life for 18 years.

3. She constantly makes lists for me of what I should do.

4. I always feel like I am taking her and treating her out.

5. She doesn't get along with any of my friends.

6. She constantly scolds me.

Yet I feel awful losing her... why?

Maybe she never did love me. She wanted this perfect guy.... honestly I got fed up being this guy she wanted so I said I wanted to end the relationship.

I hope I made the right decision. Nobody should have to change for anyone.

Like a buddy once said... a ton of times okay...

Women are _____'ed so _____ them!

Brother I've been there so I know your pain. While it sucks breaking up with someone especially someone you think your in love, it sounds like she couldn't except you for you which is a shame and her loss. I had a girlfriend once who wanted me to sell my entire mask and Star Wars collection even though she had a huge collection of plush toys. However as much as it may suck right now, from my experiance you'll get over it usually in a matter of weeks. My advice is go out, pick up some girls, hang out with friends, focus on your hobbies if you can afford to and tear up any pictures of her and don't except any calls from her or let her play mind games with you. Also if you own any GTA games, its allways fun to run over,shoot,stab,stomp on pedestrians that look like your ex, just don't do it in real life though :lol

Admittidly I've been dumped so times by girls I thought I loved that I've actually become somewhat immune to it. Las time I was dumped was by a girl I had dated for nearly a year that I really cared for but when she said broke up with me I was like "meh". Way I see it is if it's ment to be then it will happen.

I know none of what I said is probably of any comfort but just give it time and your wonds will heal before you know it.

Oh and PS, never ever let a woman become you and your ^^^^^ (cats).
 
eli26, my sympathies about your break up. i feel u, cos i also just recently ended a 2-year relationship with a girl i loved very much. in the end, i realized what many on this thread have said before: "love isn't enough."

my 2cents of advice to offer u is this: no matter what happened between u both and how it ended, NEVER EVER be bitter about it. bitterness will eat u up from the inside and diminish u as a man and as a human being.

just remember what u loved about her in the first place and forget the rest. then MOVE ON with your life. u will be a better person for it, trust me.

now, the good news: there are LOADS of women out there for your choosing. go forth, and conquer. :naughty
 
Brother I've been there so I know your pain. While it sucks breaking up with someone especially someone you think your in love, it sounds like she couldn't except you for you which is a shame and her loss. I had a girlfriend once who wanted me to sell my entire mask and Star Wars collection even though she had a huge collection of plush toys. However as much as it may suck right now, from my experiance you'll get over it usually in a matter of weeks. My advice is go out, pick up some girls, hang out with friends, focus on your hobbies if you can afford to and tear up any pictures of her and don't except any calls from her or let her play mind games with you. Also if you own any GTA games, its allways fun to run over,shoot,stab,stomp on pedestrians that look like your ex, just don't do it in real life though :lol

Admittidly I've been dumped so times by girls I thought I loved that I've actually become somewhat immune to it. Las time I was dumped was by a girl I had dated for nearly a year that I really cared for but when she said broke up with me I was like "meh". Way I see it is if it's ment to be then it will happen.

I know none of what I said is probably of any comfort but just give it time and your wonds will heal before you know it.

Oh and PS, never ever let a woman become you and your ^^^^^ (cats).

Women frustrate me.

Always manipulating what we say.

Always nagging you... and when you see you get it and apologize. They still nag.

They try to get you to break off plans with your guy friends to hang with their's, but when it's the other way around, they say f-no!

Women...

I wished the Stepford Wives program existed.
 
Women frustrate me.

Always manipulating what we say.

Always nagging you... and when you see you get it and apologize. They still nag.

They try to get you to break off plans with your guy friends to hang with their's, but when it's the other way around, they say f-no!

Women...

I wished the Stepford Wives program existed.


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****s and endo at the same time... not more awesome than that.

someone post a hot schoolgirl pic... legs!

man, they need a megan fox schoolgirl pic... stat!

Man yeah you need her to get over all of this ;)

I don't know if I can give you any advice its going to be rough for a couple of weeks, but with my current love, I've found out its easier to go out with people who know coming in who you are and understand a little.

My girlfriend had no choice in life, she grew up with a older brother that is just like me but older. He taught her all about star wars and since she looked up to him and wanted to hang out with him as siblings often do she got raised on star wars and star trek.

She is the only girl I know that knew what a space invader was from the twilight zone when I pointed one out to her on the Tower of Terror ride( thats when I feel in love with her ;)). She also loves Twilight zone, so she's kinda a nerd like me.

But she is also a female, sure we only fight maybe like once every 2 months and its always a misunderstanding. They do say that they are from venus and we are from mars so there is always misunderstandings between male and female.
Hell we sometimes argue about my collection but only cause I could be spending that money on me and hers future, anyways you should find someone like her.............. might be what you are looking for bro.
 
Men frustrate me.

Always manipulating what we do.

Always ^^^^^ing at you... and when you see you get it and apologize. They still ^^^^^.

They try to get you to break off plans with your girl friends to hang with them, but when it's the other way around, they say f-no!

Men...

I wished a male robot program existed.

I totally agree! :lol
 
Yeah, okay Ween. That made no sense, unless you're a caveman... and do caveman speak.

Me Ween. Me like men. Men no like Ween. Kidding Ween. You're alright even if you're a bit confused.

It made just as much sense as what you said! :lol

You're alright too! Now go eat some gummy bears! :D
 
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