Ah, so it's the kids that hate the Raimi Spider-Man films. No wonder. I guess CelticP was the stand out exception to the rule. He was a kid and he appeared to love them.
I don't see what Spider-Man fan/Comic book film fan/film fan could hate Spider-Man 2. The train scene? That killed it for some of you? The message there isn't that the people are these cynical ****s that want to hurt Spider-Man by telling people who he is. No, they have a respect for him because he saved their lives. They were all about to die and they knew it. There's, what, a woman with a new born baby, two little kids, a business guy that reassures him that "it's okay", and a couple of dudes who are reminded of their own sons. Yeah, they have an incentive to tell everyone.
Great thing to dwell on. Certainly makes for a horrible movie.