I can't imagine having to date now. My patience level for ******** and games is zero so each date would probably last two minutes before I just got up and left.
It seems like it’s 99.9999% ******** and games, and, like, .0001% ****ing.
I was a shut in as well. Incredibly socially awkward. I never went outside when I got into my teens. I was chubby too. It's never too late to get into shape. I did that after meeting my wife strangely
Yeah, like I said in the fitness thread, I lost about 100 lbs from mid-2016 through last year and it kind of gave me the confidence to start living my life a bit more...or doing a ****ty job of trying, at least, I think I fell off the wagon a bit and gained back a few lbs over the holidays, but I’m getting back into it now. Hitting your goal weight in the New Year doesn’t seem quite as daunting when you’re only 10 to 20 lbs away.
You just described my own teen years.
(looks oft into distance remembering, eyes well up with tears, starts sobbing uncontrollably).
Yeah, it was a really weird time for me. My mom had a lot of issues and they manifested themselves in hoarding, which caused a lot of other problems to arise, as well. I kind of used that as my outlet to victimize myself, though. I’d say “I can’t do anything because...” and hole up in my room all day and try to escape into the television. Naturally, there isn’t much movement in doing that, so, when I finally left, it kind of shocked me when the pounds started shedding the more I walked my dog.
yeah... if i had to put up with all the i'm rockin' a selfie, over sensitive, self entitled "today" mentality with trying to date... i'd be putting a 9mm in my mouth on a daily basis. dunno how you crazy kids do it!?!?
9 mms are too expensive. A belt’s a good alternative, but we’re also millennials who don’t like being uncomfortable, so, we’re like “too tight!” “Too tight!” and thus begins the cycle all over again.
It's definitely a rough venture. There's still a lot of pressure for people to get married, yet that's the last thing people should do. With today's entitlement, I see a lot of kids whose parents are emotionally abusive due to the parents battling each other over who's right, etc. I'd probably be single with 6 cats and a big dog if I had to date today.
I feel zero pressure to get married. I mean, I’ve got to be honest, but, at 22, I’m about as cynical and jaded as a thrice divorced 55-year old. I pretty much hold to the conviction that love is dead and the best I can hope for is a series of casual encounters with random women before my personality sends them running for the hills...and my chances of that are pretty slim, as it stands, soooo, yeah...