TPM happened. No amount of dialoguing or fan edits or whatever will change that. The most frustrating thing about it for me was that for a long time I felt that it betrayed what was the "true" backstory and subtext of the OT. The impression I got from things like online interviews with Gary Kurtz was that it was supposed to be tons of badass Jedi fighting badass Sith and Anakin starting out as an adult and bla bla bla.
But since then I just haven't found any other evidence supporting the notion that Lucas did a total 180 on the backstory as he originally envisioned it. He tweaked it obviously like having Padme die in childbirth instead of when Leia was a couple years old but tweaks always happen, and they happened when he made ESB and ROTJ.
He executed a lot of things in ways that I didn't love but that also occurred in ROTJ. ROTJ is really quite annoying in a lot of ways if you think about it. But we always forgive it. Why? Because it's still very exciting in parts, offers completion to the story built up in ANH and ESB and it has great iconography. Jabba, Speeder Bikes, the Space Battle, Vader's funeral pyre. To this day we still forgive ewoks for crying out loud. Ewoks!
I can understand why people would dismiss the PT, I did (or at least wanted to) for a good number of years. But it really is "the saga of Star Wars" and nothing will really change that. I suppose Disney could have retconned them out or sidelined them as part of the massively non-canon "Legends" banner but they didn't. And I think that The Force Awakens WILL acknowledge them in some way and I think that The Force Awakens just might end up being the best SW film since The Empire Strikes Back. I could be wrong of course, but what if it is? If you can't handle watching a movie that isn't "3 stars" or above then obviously you'll ignore the PT as being "beneath you." Whatever. I like a lot of things that are far from perfect. Hell I've got a picture of Godzilla that my five year old son scribbled with some crayons attached to my refrigerator. Does it look like Stan Winston drew it? Hell no. But it's Godzilla. Drawn by my kid. So you bet your ass that damn thing is front center on my fridge.
And TPM (and even AOTC and ROTS) aren't that different. I love SW. And I really like the people who made these movies. So I enjoy them.
I guess the more I've thought about it the more it just sinks in that Gungans, or "yippee" or "I hate sand" or "Nooooo!" just isn't that damn big of a deal. The Empire Strikes Back was *this close* to being partially stupid if they didn't edit out the Keystone Cop Snowtroopers or that awful Han and Leia dialogue. The prequels didn't benefit from the expert editing of some of its predecessors but so what.
Darth Maul is freaking COOL. So is Jango. Even AOTC has at least one truly OT-esque scene when Anakin is brooding at the sunset on Tatooine. The Harmy trilogy has allowed me the *option* of watching the PT, and even the SE's, in a way that I can appreciate the good but not be infuriated by the bad. Now I just laugh at the goofy stuff. Like literally laugh out loud or shake my head. Just because somebody (George Lucas) had the audacity to "go there." "No matter what universe you're from, that's gotta hurt." Really? You actually put that line in a SW movie? Hilarious. Not hilarious the line is funny but hilarious that it HAPPENED. It's just crazy. And equally or even more crazy is that so many of us (myself included) got so damn butt hurt about it.
I don't think that TPM proved that George Lucas is a dork or a loser but I kind of think it proved that a lot of US were. It certainly wasn't a worse movie than other 90's sci-fi action films like Stargate, Independence Day, The Fifth Element or Wild Wild West. It was better than all of those. But did we **** our pants and weep and wail for *DECADES* that Wild Wild West sucked? No. We were just "yeah, that wasn't good" and lived out our lives. The Fifth Element is another movie that had some genuinely cool elements offset by a "Jar Jar Binks" type character but, again, it didn't destroy our lives or become this big line in the sand that we WOULD NOT CROSS or acknowledge or whatever.
Big ass ramble I know but the prequels did one important thing for me, they provided cool new Star Wars stuff. Sure, I wish the films were as good as ESB from beginning to end but ROTJ sure proved that that just isn't necessary. Hopefully TFA will be another ESB or at least ANH but again, if it's simply as "good" as ROTJ then I'll be more than happy. If it's no better than the PT well hey, at least we'll have some cool looking new Stormtroopers and a neat tri-saber to argue about for the next 20 years.