Is there anyway you can either take out a loan, or maybe find someone who can buy your prints from you and then let you buy them back one at a time when you have the funds?
Can you also accept donations when the time comes at the funeral. Like in lieu of flowers? We do that hear. Instead of flowers or donation to a charity, they donate to the funeral fund to help pay for it.
Thanks so much for the advice and concern sweetie, but no unfortunately. I can't get a loan because I'm on disability benefits and can't work. there's no point discussing buying them back as my own health is getting worse too so I don't know what's gonna happen.
Honestly my sister has very few friends so there will be minimal people there anyway. All she has is her Ex boyfriend and her two sons. Her ex and I are the executors of her will (not that she has anything besides her boys) but he's a ....well quirky, his contribution will be looking after my 2 Nephews when the time comes. Thankfully they already live with him so that won't be an upheaval aswell, as losing their mum is gonna be bad enough.
She seems to think that it's only organisation involved in a funeral when we talked about it. I don't want to remind her that funerals cost money. She doesn't want our so-called mother involved (other than being invited) and my brother won't be involved.
I think there is a 'death grant' that I can apply for when it happens but it's only a fraction of the cost for a basic funeral/cremation, and you have to jump through hoops to apply for it. Plus you have to pay everything first, then
maybe get some back.
My brothers fiancé mentioned I could ask her to contribute to her own funeral too since she knows it's a case of when rather than if. I can see her point but I'm wary about asking. Plus (like me) she doesn't have any money aside from benefits so I doubt she could save anything even if she wanted to, and to be honest I doubt she would want to. Her brains not wired that way.
So, I have my prints and while I am seriously hating having to sell them, I have to keep telling myself that they are a luxury rather than necessity.
As I say though my bruv is not happy me selling stuff for it and my sis doesn't know, it's just something I have to do
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Things are just a complete mess right now and I feel like I'm living in a in a pressure cooker, so seeing my bruv at the weekend was a wonderful distraction and bit of solace, especially when he kept hugging me.
Thanks weenie
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