It doesn't bother me that the lead is a female, and to be honest I don't even believe men and women are equals, so most of you will probably disagree with me there but when it comes to fantasy land I can excuse a lot under proper context and as long as it's judged fairly I have no problem with it.
I agree with you to a point; I think some women are equal to some men. I once saw a 5'2" Woman Marine kick the **** out of three soldiers (Army) in training.
It was actually pretty fun to watch.
Plus she was pretty hot.