I think you had deeper feelings for her than you want to admit for you to say this. Don't close yourself off. I've been hurt deeply by men in the past, and though it takes time, you move on. Not all women are bad.
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I think you had deeper feelings for her than you want to admit for you to say this. Don't close yourself off. I've been hurt deeply by men in the past, and though it takes time, you move on. Not all women are bad.
DreaAlGhul
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That was so sad to read. It seems like you're almost setting yourself up for disaster. But I'm no one to judge so I hope things end up working out for you.
That was so sad to read. It seems like you're almost setting yourself up for disaster. But I'm no one to judge so I hope things end up working out for you.
the problem is obsessing over one girl, I am sure he really loves her, but the feeling is not mutual, I had to learn that the hard way as well,
no matter how much you love the friendship and no matter how much it will hurt, if you have strong feelings for someone that wont return them you have to distance yourself, well, at least, in my case, it was the only thing that worked, even if he gets a girlfriend but is still hanging out with the girl, I don't think will matter,
I think that, if you have love feeling for a friend, the best thing is to cut ties,
or just keep torturing yourself
devilof76
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Or, build a soundproof room in the basement with strong mountings in the floor for chains.
that could work too,
I honestly think is not fair for someone that is in love with someone else to be friends, there will always be hurtin,
plus if the girl knows how the guy feels, yet he is still in the friend zone, that just shows you how much she cares... about his feelings I mean,
like, would you be okay with being best friends with some girl that is in love with you? would you be okay with her knowing you are dating? and that you would never date her, that seems really cold to me
devilof76
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I don't think it's the girl's responsibility to make the decision. If she has a friend, and he wants more from her, I don't think she should sacrifice whatever value she gets from his friendship, just for his sake.
It's his own responsibility to sort it out. She's not being cold if he insists on subjecting himself to that kind of torture.
It's his own responsibility to sort it out. She's not being cold if he insists on subjecting himself to that kind of torture.
you are absolutely right, it is his responsibility
and thats why I originally said (if you have strong feelings for someone that wont return them you have to distance yourself)
but then you said the thing about building a fortress, so then I said what I said about the girl,
but, even if it's the guy's responsibility, I personally wouldn't push the girl into the friendzone and not care, I mean, I would feel bad, specially if they are a really good friend,
devilof76
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No, I was talking about building a dungeon. 
No, I was talking about building a dungeon.
LOL yeah that,
(wait a minute... What Kind of Dungeon , Did you mean a sex slave dungeon?)
devilof76
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No, it would be a 'just friends' dungeon. 
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Someone say Dungeons and Dragons? Today I came across a brown recluse i was moving a bag of chips on my patio when BLAM it jumped on my shirt and i quickly dispatched it
DarthBakura
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Yikes!
Quick reflexes! Those things are vile, evil, disgusting creatures of hell. -.-
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Just a question...
When you live in a place that features Indoor-Outdoor living, and you have your house open to outdoor elements, how do you keep the pests out. By pests I mean snakes lizards, scorpions and tarantulas.
When you live in a place that features Indoor-Outdoor living, and you have your house open to outdoor elements, how do you keep the pests out. By pests I mean snakes lizards, scorpions and tarantulas.
Screens. That's about the only way you can do it. There are very few places where you can have your house completely open without having a ton of bugs or the things you mention coming in.
Lejuan
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If you have a problem with insects being in the house, the last thing you want to do is get rid of the lizards
If you have a problem with insects being in the house, the last thing you want to do is get rid of the lizards
That's true!
But if you want to keep them all out, you'll have close them out. I can't think of any other way to do it other than screens.
Critters be crazy!
the screens help, they have screens in the windows, patio doors, front doors everywhere,
also
you have to fumigate, my dad would use this bug killer her got in Home Depot, and I use the same, comes in a big bottle with a hose to spray around,
well, some people just call the exterminator too, but we just do it ourselves,
when you use pesticides like that, it helps kill the bugs and keep them out
this guy freaks me out, he is so weird, he is pretty much the Wendigo impersonated,
the worst thing is that he says he invokes spirits to get ideas for his songs and lyrics,
[ame]https://youtu.be/whndX4SLNNM[/ame]
the worst thing is that he says he invokes spirits to get ideas for his songs and lyrics,
[ame]https://youtu.be/whndX4SLNNM[/ame]
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