Break ups suck. How do you rebound from a break up?

[CelticPredator]

Better?

Is Nicolas Cage OK????

 

[Frank]

I get that but I don't get what does it mean for a guy to put in on a pedestal? what does the guy do to do that?
i dont get it

In other words, the man is idealizing the woman. This usually entails sacrificing personal dignity and common sense. In many cases, he will become a complete tool just to keep her around. If treatment is not sought, the subject will find themselves in a full-blown long term commitment by the time symptoms of gimp start to appear.

 

[devilof76]

What he said.

 

[AllisonAmy]

If you think she is worth the fight, then she probably is. Severing ties (for the most part) with my parents last year was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. My mother is extremely controlling (among other things). If she is miserable around her family, then maybe she can distance herself from them enough to give you and her another chance. If she wants to live next door to her parents, that would be a huge problem...your fight for her will be difficult and take a very long time. If she realizes how controlling her mother is, she may need your help with distancing herself. I am 41 and still can't handle my mother very easily. I was in my early thirties before I realized it was wrong of my mom to ever consider me her property. I wish you the best and hope she can get some freedom so you can have an honest chance with her.

I hope that made sense. Good luck!

 

[fosing]

In other words, the man is idealizing the woman. This usually entails sacrificing personal dignity and common sense. In many cases, he will become a complete tool just to keep her around. If treatment is not sought, the subject will find themselves in a full-blown long term commitment by the time symptoms of gimp start to appear.

at times compromising ones personal dignity and common sense is sufficient enough.

like setting your standards to: unattainable.

 

[The Ween]

26 and still living with her parents? what kind of loser were you dating? wtf?

Black........you don't know the girl, stop calling her a loser.

 

[AllisonAmy]

It can be very difficult to separate from your parents, even if you want to.

 

[crows]

Black........you don't know the girl, stop calling her a loser.

i mean of course I dont know her and Eli sounds like he really loved her, she was probably really nice,

but living with your parents at 26, there is no excuse, Sure i can understand getting fired and losing your home and having to crash there for a while,
but no respectable 26 grown up would still be living with their parents,
I bet if this was a man we were talking about you would agree, I guess because is a girl it doesnt seem as bad, but a guy would be call a loser and a weirdo and a mamma's boy and a comic book freak, you get the idea

 

[thenammagazine]

i mean of course I dont know her and Eli sounds like he really loved her, she was probably really nice,

but living with your parents at 26, there is no excuse, Sure i can understand getting fired and losing your home and having to crash there for a while,
but no respectable 26 grown up would still be living with their parents,
I bet if this was a man we were talking about you would agree, I guess because is a girl it doesnt seem as bad, but a guy would be call a loser and a weirdo and a mamma's boy and a comic book freak, you get the idea

That's an interesting and valid point.

 

[The Ween]

i mean of course I dont know her and Eli sounds like he really loved her, she was probably really nice,

but living with your parents at 26, there is no excuse, Sure i can understand getting fired and losing your home and having to crash there for a while,
but no respectable 26 grown up would still be living with their parents,
I bet if this was a man we were talking about you would agree, I guess because is a girl it doesnt seem as bad, but a guy would be call a loser and a weirdo and a mamma's boy and a comic book freak, you get the idea

Not anymore. It's more common than you think. There are 3 generations living in one household now. Sometimes life just dictates that to us.

btw......she's going to school.

 

[crows]

Not anymore. It's more common than you think. There are 3 generations living in one household now. Sometimes life just dictates that to us.

btw......she's going to school.

yeah I don't mean to sound like I'm hating on her, and it might be common, but really if this was a guy we were talking about I bet every single person here would be ripping him a new one for living at home with parents,

 

[The Ween]

yeah I don't mean to sound like I'm hating on her, and it might be common, but really if this was a guy we were talking about I bet every single person here would be ripping him a new one for living at home with parents,

Nope, cause quite a few of them do.

 

[thenammagazine]

Nope, cause quite a few of them do.

I've seen several people give Josh a hard time (well, before Dave made him a mod ).

 

[The Ween]

I've seen several people give Josh a hard time (well, before Dave made him a mod ).

Whoever did are idiots. None of their business for one thing.

 

[crows]

I've seen several people give Josh a hard time (well, before Dave made him a mod ).

yeah I agree, I know at work they all make fun of this guy and he is 24, he says he is moving soon but the guys still make fun of him all the time

I have a hard time getting a girl I wouldn't imagine what it would be like if I lived at home, I would probably still be a virgin LOL

 

[The Ween]

yeah I agree, I know at work they all make fun of this guy and he is 24, he says he is moving soon but the guys still make fun of him all the time

I have a hard time getting a girl I wouldn't imagine what it would be like if I lived at home, I would probably still be a virgin LOL

Why make fun of him?

What happens to you if you lose your job and can't find one? Gonna live in a cardboard box or will you move back home?

 

[devilof76]

<-----living with my mom since my dad died and she couldn't afford her mortgage alone.

 

[The Ween]

<-----living with my mom since my dad died and she couldn't afford her mortgage alone.

And my mother lives with me since my father died because she can't be alone.

 

[crows]

i mean of course I dont know her and Eli sounds like he really loved her, she was probably really nice,

but living with your parents at 26, there is no excuse, Sure i can understand getting fired and losing your home and having to crash there for a while,
but no respectable 26 grown up would still be living with their parents,
I bet if this was a man we were talking about you would agree, I guess because is a girl it doesnt seem as bad, but a guy would be call a loser and a weirdo and a mamma's boy and a comic book freak, you get the idea

Why make fun of him?

What happens to you if you lose your job and can't find one? Gonna live in a cardboard box or will you move back home?

above

 

[The Ween]

above

So......can I then point at you and laugh when you're unemployed for a year or so like some are?