Break ups suck. How do you rebound from a break up?

[Master Wayne]

maybe if you didn't spend every night dressed like a bat girls wouldnt leave you, just saying,

 

[Sweet Rabbit]

Do some one night stands

 

[Voorhees27]

 

[Master Wayne]

 

[thenammagazine]

We're talking Eli here guys...

 

[crows]

We're talking Eli here guys...

OMG is Bane in the back!

 

[CAhobbit]

I feel for you bro. I really do. Part of my break up was not being to handle the constant constructive criticism of my ex. I just couldn't take it. I should have been a rock. I wasn't.

You probably weren't a bad boyfriend. You just weren't ready. It was probably a two-way street. Where they ever in the wrong? Of course! We want to think we could have handled things better, but they could have as well. Both people have to work on it. It can't be just the one person. Unfortunately in relationships, one side is more selfish than the other, and that's primarily where problems ensue.

Uh....CONSTANT constructive criticism is not good and shouldn't be something a partner should have to put up with. Yes, people will give each other criticism over this and that but to have that happen on a constant level is NOT cool (IMO). People like that (IMO) seem like they want the other person to change. The biggest mistake anyone can make in a relationship is hoping the other person will change (and though people sometimes change...it's rare and to really think with enough criticism, talking, suggestions, etc. that magically that person will wake up to be your idea mate is just silly IMO).

 

[pixletwin]

Uh....CONSTANT constructive criticism is not good and shouldn't be something a partner should have to put up with. Yes, people will give each other criticism over this and that but to have that happen on a constant level is NOT cool (IMO). People like that (IMO) seem like they want the other person to change. The biggest mistake anyone can make in a relationship is hoping the other person will change (and though people sometimes change...it's rare and to really think with enough criticism, talking, suggestions, etc. that magically that person will wake up to be your idea mate is just silly IMO).

 

[thenammagazine]

OMG is Bane in the back!

Not yet, but he will be.

 

[The Ween]

Yes, yes, suck it up butter cup.

Curious how you guys deal with it. Is it more difficult for the person who breaks it up, or the person on the receiving end?

Eli....did we go through this some time back? Same person or a new one?

It's always harder on the one who is dumped, UNLESS the dumpee did something awful to the dumper, who then dumps the dumpee because of that.

Ummm.........yeah.

 

[pixletwin]

Any pics of the girl? I need to visualize your loss.

 

[The Ween]

I recommend listening to Eminem:

-Where I'm At
-All She Wrote
-Puke

That's what I'd do if I listen to him.

 

[The Ween]

Remember her farts. That is, unless you're into that sort of thing, then don't remember her farts.

LaMelnik would disagree with you!

 

[FLOSI]

Any pics of the girl? I need to visualize your loss.

 

[The Ween]

____ me... see, I should have been more of a rock. I had a great chick and I threatened we wouldn't work and asked for a break up each time I did, because I couldn't take her nagging. lol Well, I took it as nagging.

What was she "nagging" you about?

 

[Darth Cruel]

Holy moly, Eli. You are better off without her. But just in case I need to get ahold of her for anything...what is her number?

 

[Vader AL]

That's what I'd do if I listen to him.

Blashemy! ha, ha. If I was a woman (thank you Lord), I wouldn't either I guess.

 

[Vader AL]

My buddy's wife cheated on him (they divorced 3 weeks later) so I've been listening to him for about 8 months now and he is finally...as much as one can be, over it and moving on so talking it out to someone who just listens and doesn't try and give you advise all the time but just listens is good medicine.

 

[fosing]

wise advice from Hans Gruber....
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hoookerz. go get sum.

 

[UltraMarknus]

I got dumped years back a few weeks after getting engaged. The store wouldn't let me return the ring. Exchange only. I blinged myself out. Then girls thought I had money. Greatest break up fall out ever.