Dissecting the sexes.

[Porko Rossi]

Well she was giving me advice about my ex so she might have been a bit biased to help cheer me up.

 

[crows]

I think Women only care about themselves until usually they have kids, or they just learn to know better,
but having kids changes that fast (usually)

but most girls, yeah, most girls only care about themselves,

 

[mr.thrifty]

Yeah!! Cause guys are never ........

I think we're all pretty much alike.....

 

[devilof76]

The act of valuing something or someone is selfish. How the hell are people supposed to love each other selflessly?

"Not-I loves you."

Makes a lot of sense.

 

[crows]

Yeah!! Cause guys are never ........

I think we're all pretty much alike.....

I guess it could go both ways yeah, true, once someone becomes a parents they stop being so selfish, that's true, either sex,

but, the thing is, Guys care about getting into girls pants, while girls just care about themselves lol

 

[mr.thrifty]

I guess it could go both ways yeah, true, once someone becomes a parents they stop being so selfish, that's true, either sex,


Not true....

but, the thing is, Guys care about getting into girls pants, while girls just care about themselves lol

probably true.......

 

[Eli26]

The act of valuing something or someone is selfish. How the hell are people supposed to love each other selflessly?

"Not-I loves you."

Makes a lot of sense.

^^ This. We actually discussed this on Facebook. One truly has to be selfish in order to be a part of a successful relationship.


"To love is to value. Only a rationally selfish man, a man of self-esteem, is capable of love—because he is the only man capable of holding firm, consistent, uncompromising, unbetrayed values. The man who does not value himself, cannot value anything or anyone." | The Virtue of Selfishness | Ayn Rand - I always said you have to be selfish to a degree to be unselfish. Can't love others if you can't love yourself.

 

[crows]

probably true.......

well, usually, there are of course the douche exceptions

 

[The Ween]

^^ This. We actually discussed this on Facebook. One truly has to be selfish in order to be a part of a successful relationship.


"To love is to value. Only a rationally selfish man, a man of self-esteem, is capable of love—because he is the only man capable of holding firm, consistent, uncompromising, unbetrayed values. The man who does not value himself, cannot value anything or anyone." | The Virtue of Selfishness | Ayn Rand - I always said you have to be selfish to a degree to be unselfish. Can't love others if you can't love yourself.

You can love yourself and not be selfish.

 

[IrishJedi]

True. I've also known people who are selfish but still don't like themselves.

 

[devilof76]

'Selfish' has become a catch-all for unpleasant character traits which are usually the result of low self-esteem.

 

[The Ween]

I always took selfish to mean that you care only for yourself and you care nothing for others.

I love my "being", but I can't say that I totally love my physical self. I'm working at embrassing my uniqueness though.

I hope that makes sense.

 

[Skiman]

GOD I RULEEE!!!!

Kneel before ZOOOOOOOOOD!

SKI <--

 

[devilof76]

Ski gets it.

I always took selfish to mean that you care only for yourself and you care nothing for others.

Have you ever asked yourself if there's anything selfish about caring about others? I mean, is it not in your self-interest to be concerned with other humans' well-being?

 

[barryo]

'Selfish' has become a catch-all for unpleasant character traits which are usually the result of low self-esteem.

my ******* brother suffers from low self esteem........

 

[Skiman]

my ******* brother suffers from low self esteem........

Gotta slap him in face and say "SNAP outta of it!" , "You need me to kick your arse?!?!?!?"

"20 NOW, on the floor, you are my bro we DON'T SUCK!!!!"

Ski

 

[barryo]

Gotta slap him in face and say "SNAP outta of it!" , "You need me to kick your arse?!?!?!?"

"20 NOW, on the floor, you are my bro we DON'T SUCK!!!!"

Ski

i think it's probaby because he so damn ugly.........

 

[Skiman]

i think it's probaby because he so damn ugly.........

Did that stop HULK or Arnie?

Ski

 

[barryo]

Did that stop HULK or Arnie?

Ski

.............i was only kidding & borrowing a tom mabe line...........actually my brother is quite kick ass.

 

[The Ween]

Ski gets it.



Have you ever asked yourself if there's anything selfish about caring about others? I mean, is it not in your self-interest to be concerned with other humans' well-being?

Let me ask you this........do you care about your neice's well-being?