I'm team Tobey over Tom or Andrew, as he's my favourite Spidey.
I have both (red and black) the Tobey's from Spider-Man 3, and the advantage of them are that they are stretchy cloth costumes so you can pose them without fear. The downside is that they are a product of their time and the underlying figure isn't the best.
Personally, I am likely to get this Tobey, plus the NWH/ASM2 Garfield, and team them up with the Tech suit from Homecoming as I think the red and blue colours for all three will look great, plus I'm not a huge fan of the Integrated Suit.