Yep, this has been my take on Thor since he was introduced into the Marvel movie universe (and they did think to say so). His fight with Iron Man in Avengers, for example, totally worked and I didn't feel any dissonance between 'magic' and 'technology' during that scene.
I get where you're coming from but have to disagree. I'd have no issues with Nolan Bat-verse being merged with Man of Steel, for example, even though Nolan (IIRC) predicated Batman on living in a world without other superheros. So long as MoS creates a credible world in which Superman can exist, it would be the same for me as believing in a world where Spider-Man and Punisher both exist (or Thor, for that matter). I haven't seen the movie, but I think Mandarin could work either way, also (space rings or figurehead).
Have to admit, that's where my suspension of disbelief also snaps. Hated that character in the comics (and a lot of GotG... just never connected with the concept/art/writing) and don't expect I'll like much better as a movie, unless it's really good. Very cynical about it, to say the least.