I think that what many of you point to is the biggest problem--people ordering customs don't understand what they are getting into oftentimes. They expect turnaround as if they are dealing with a business, but they are ultimately just dealing with a fan that does customs.
I ordered a custom from a member (not Les) in early December under the impression that it would be be done in one month (that's what this person told me). I am still waiting, and have no idea how long it will take to get finished, but based on what I have seen, it isn't coming any time soon. When I ordered it, I was new(er) to the boards and the whole idea of ordering customs, and assumed that things work differently than they sometimes do. I'm not upset, I know that people get backlogged and have personal issues, and etc. etc. But the whole situation is different than what I expected, and so I can at least empathize with where the "complainers" are coming from.
What I'm trying to say is that, there is a lack of information on the side of the "consumer." If he knew now what he knew then (regarding potential turn-around time, etc.), then the guy placing the order might not do it to begin with, or at least would develop more accurate expectations before paying, and thus have little reason to complain when things took a while to get finished. Now, he can't get a refund (as he is accustomed to in dealing with typical businesses), and he has to wait indefinitely. In a community where expectations of instant gratification and a resort whining are often the norm, this can be a bad formula.
It's just a tough situation, that I hope can work out for everyone involved.