I think you're just assuming too much
I did say he directed some really good action in the movie, the manhattan scene smokes the Apocalypse destruction scene in XMA, but that's about it.
How can I say one scene is better than the other in more objective terms? Art is subjective isn't it? I gave my opinion on why The Graduate and the TDK did it better, in my opinion you can watch both movies and kind of miss out on what the image is showing, where as with The Avengers it's too obvious, to you that might be good, and that makes sense, that's the point of the shot, to me it's not nearly as seamless and subtle as the other two examples I gave. They're a lot easier to miss, that's why I appreciate them more, but I never said the that shot in the Avengers is bad, just that it can't save that scene from all the horrible acting and camera work that follows it. If you enjoy it then good for you man, I don't want to make you hate that scene, but In my opinion, the scene is a joke, it all looks and sounds weird, the acting doesn't match the camera work or music, it's a weird mix of drama and humor. The acting also, wasn't good at all to me, if you think it was, then again, that's great, I don't see how we can debate something we can't prove each other wrong on