i have to agree with almost everyone else, if she cant accept u for the things that make u happy, then it wasnt meant to b. trust me, most of us including i have run into chix that diapprove of our collecting ways, i try not to even bring it up on first dates anymore cause frankly i due get scared now, that the girl will automatically get turned off when mentioned, but when the right person comes, it wont even matter unless u get into debt of course because of it, but thats a different story