Question for married couples/serious relationships
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mr.thrifty
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Damn! Are you being serious or are you really just an ******?
what's wrong with pot pies and beer?
BadMoon
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If you have to ask/post on a message board there's a problem. (or there's gonna be)
I would not dig it if my woman did and vice versa.
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BadMoon
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Pretty much.....
greyrabbit
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Before we met, my partner and I were very into the club culture, so we have a lot of trust with each other when either of us goes clubbing without the other. Almost every time my partner has gone out to club without me, she tells me of a guy (or some cases, girl), who has chatted her up, got numbers, offered some type of drug, propositioned to their place ..etc. I'm not fazed by it, as I know this is what happens at clubs, and my partner does too, and it isn't what she goes to clubs for.
Despite that, I trust her too so it does not bother me. That is the nature of what clubs are all about, and I know for my partner, that she goes to clubs to hang out friends, meet new ppl through friends, listen to the music, have a few drinks, dance, and just enjoy the atmosphere. It is just a social environment we are both used to, and at most it is more about going to see a good DJ play and not take things too far with others.
I should add, that there have been times when we have been out together, clearly as a couple ..and my partner has been approached by others with me right beside them. So it is irrelevant wether I was there or not, it is still going to happen, and I can just trust my partner. OTOH, I've had instances for example, some random girl sticking her tongue down my throat with my partner right beside me ..so wether my partner was there or not, it was going to happen, and it comes down to my partner trusting me in that instance. We just have a laugh about these things afterwards
Despite that, I trust her too so it does not bother me. That is the nature of what clubs are all about, and I know for my partner, that she goes to clubs to hang out friends, meet new ppl through friends, listen to the music, have a few drinks, dance, and just enjoy the atmosphere. It is just a social environment we are both used to, and at most it is more about going to see a good DJ play and not take things too far with others.
I should add, that there have been times when we have been out together, clearly as a couple ..and my partner has been approached by others with me right beside them. So it is irrelevant wether I was there or not, it is still going to happen, and I can just trust my partner. OTOH, I've had instances for example, some random girl sticking her tongue down my throat with my partner right beside me ..so wether my partner was there or not, it was going to happen, and it comes down to my partner trusting me in that instance. We just have a laugh about these things afterwards
Kibishii
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greyrabbit
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BadMoon LOL! I DONT KNOW!! Just chatting and all of a sudden 
..perhaps one too many soda's
..or whatever she happened to be on
..perhaps one too many soda's ..or whatever she happened to be on
Folks, you can throw the trust card around all you want, but I'm a married man of 9 years and I've been around the block a time or two, and the FACT is, every single person posting on this website is capable of virtually anything. Everyone has blindspots and areas of weakness, and every single one of you if put in the right situation could make a big mistake. So my wife and I have always subscribed to the philosophy of not putting ourselves in a situation where we might be tempted. It's stupid. Trust has nothing to do with it. As a married man with 3 children, there is nothing good waiting for me at a club. NOTHING.
So you can sound all hip and cool and progressive, but it's a very fine and dangerous line you're walking when you allow yourself to be placed in combustible situations. And please don't tell me there are no tempations at clubs.....
So you can sound all hip and cool and progressive, but it's a very fine and dangerous line you're walking when you allow yourself to be placed in combustible situations. And please don't tell me there are no tempations at clubs.....
BadMoon
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Edited Post for Dave..................
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King Darkness
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How did it take 134 posts before Shai shared his wisdom?
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BadMoon
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He has been on pretty good behavior lately. Maybe DarkLord spooned him and made it all better.
Either way I enjoyed the post.
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