Eli26
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*curls up in a tight ball*
Please let it stop. Please let it stop.
Please let it stop. Please let it stop.
Question for married couples/serious relationships
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Okay BG, here is the bottom line. To "B" its a big deal if "A" goes out to clubs alone. That is them. If "A" cannot comply then they aren't right for "B", it has little to do with right and wrong or trust and mistrust as this thread has spiraled into but more about consessions, which "A" is willing to make and which "A" is not. We've all had to do things not because we wanted to because they wanted us to. Love is grand but a relationship while built on trust and love is also built on compromise and if "B" is feeling hurt or like they can't really live like this then the answer is crystal clear already whether it hurts or not, is tough or not.
You saying they shouldn't feel like this is no different than them imposing it upon you (or vice versa since I'm tired of using letters). Now whomever "A" is dealing with their trust issues is a personal thing that can be supported by "B" as they get to a middle ground and more trusting place but that has more to do with relationship work and less to do with the issue at hand.
You saying they shouldn't feel like this is no different than them imposing it upon you (or vice versa since I'm tired of using letters). Now whomever "A" is dealing with their trust issues is a personal thing that can be supported by "B" as they get to a middle ground and more trusting place but that has more to do with relationship work and less to do with the issue at hand.
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Eli26
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Alright. I'm lucky.
(You just made my wife's day I'm sure as she has an account here too.
)+5 man points
I think Carl or someone along those lines took away my Man Points a while ago.
mr.thrifty
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Why... Why must you keep feeding it???
WHY MIKE?! WHY?!?!?!
Why... Why must you keep reading it???
WHY ELI?! WHY?!?!?!
DarkArtist81
Super Freak
My Wife trusts me, and would allow me to go as long as I wasn't going nightly or something.... which would show an addiction forming at the very least. I too trust her to go out with her friends if she likes.
But we really don't do that. I went to clubs to meet girls, that's it. I never went to dance or for the atmosphere. So I don't go anymore unless it's with her or a special occasion. Honestly, it's been at least a year since I have been to one. She doesn't really go out either, unless it's a bachelorette party or something.
But we really don't do that. I went to clubs to meet girls, that's it. I never went to dance or for the atmosphere. So I don't go anymore unless it's with her or a special occasion. Honestly, it's been at least a year since I have been to one. She doesn't really go out either, unless it's a bachelorette party or something.
Chimera 1
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My wife can do whatever the hell she feels like, and she trusts me to do the same.
She's a grown woman, and I sure as hell ain't her dad.
Exactly. My wife is grown and can do what she wants. The same goes for me. We trust each other 100%.
This isn't aimed at you Kabukiman but at some others who posted.
If you don't trust your wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend then what the hell is the point in the relationship. Unless your so insecure with yourself that you are afraid someone better is going to come along and snatch them up, and if that is the case then maybe you weren't handling your business properly. (nonsexually).
Remember if you grip something to tight it will eventually slip out of your grasp, but if you hold it just right you can hold on forever.
Eli26
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Why... Why must you keep reading it???
WHY ELI?! WHY?!?!?!
Because I can't help myself... it's when a dude wears a dress.. you don't want to look, but you just can't help it. Dammit!!!!
Why... Why must you keep feeding it???
WHY MIKE?! WHY?!?!?!
Relax, Eli...Don't make Ronald have to handle his bidnez.
Eli26
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Hey now... you read every page of this thread and tell me if your sanity is still in place. I dare you Darth Snoopy. I double Snoopy dog dare yeah!
mr.thrifty
Super Freak
I never saw a point in going to clubs when I was single so nothings changed now that I'm married. My wife felt the same.
Hmmmm...*checks self*...I was crazy before I read anything in here...so nothing has changed.
Eli26
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does "B" know you like guys in dresses?
Why must you bring the ABC scenario into this? You know much hurt it hurts.
Eli26
Super Freak
Hmmmm...*checks self*...I was crazy before I read anything in here...so nothing has changed.
Question is, are you more crazy?
In the end.. like I said before. All you need is trust. If your partner cheats on you, then you are better off knowing now vs. later. Who wants to be with someone who isn't trustworthy and ultimately loving?
Voorhees27
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Truly the wisest words ever spoken by someone with a killer robot avatar.
Yeah dows ef'n robots shood have brokened my brain bye nowz.
STFU Eli.
Eli26
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Don't laugh. You only make it easier for him to post more... fellow Gwen fan... you hurt me.
btw mr. thriftty... it depends if they shave or not I guess. *shudders*
Okay, I grossed myself out now. Damn! See what this thread has done! IT'S EEEEEEEVIL! E-E-E-E-E-E-E.. EVIL!
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