I've been wondering about the McFarlane haters myself. His Spider-Man style was and STILL is the iconic Spidey that the majority of artists go for. I LOVE the Sideshow Spidey 1:1 bust personally.
And as far as Todd McFarlane the human being goes, I'll tell you this much. I sent one letter to him when I was in Iraq in 2003 telling him I was a fan. Next thing you know, I get this monstrous box of every single Spawn issue, a Todd McFarlane figure signed by him, and a bunch of other stuff.
So yeah, that McFarlane guy. He's a real bastard.
Nice story. Not such a bad guy afterall.