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wow, Im glad i asked you to explain,
that last line explains a couple of people that post in the forum actually. specially other areas like the sandbox. thank you bro.
You're sincerely welcome. The same goes for any sort of bullying really. If you can put your feelings aside and listen to people when they say mean things, it tells you a lot about them. When someone says, "You're not very smart" literally out of nowhere, it means they're self-conscious about their intellect. You know that, because to them, telling someone that they're dumb is hurtful. They're projecting. If someone says, "You're ugly!" it usually means that they're insecure about the way they look. Normal bullies usually show you their weakness, the moment they insult you. Secure people rarely go around insulting other people unprovoked.
There are exceptions. Some people who empathize can be sadistic. Don't argue with those people. If someone digs around to find out what makes you tic, and then throws whatever weakness they find at you maliciously, you probably should just stay away from people like that. Don't argue with them. You can tell the difference by how personal the insults get. If it hits close to home, just blow them off, and bail. They won't respond to shaming, or ridicule.