Same.
Well like you I only care about the end result and not who was behind it. Since I do see each and every film in the ST as being of extremely high quality from a filmmaking standpoint (acting, dialogue, visuals, editing, cinematography, score, etc.) and I do like how the OT Legacy characters were handled (for the most part, yes I could do without Leia Poppins and a few other things) I don't really care *what* kind of people were in that writers room. I like what I like and for me these films delivered.
I know that some people (not necessarily you) like inventing their little conspiracy theories that back the narratives that they want to imagine and will claim that LFL or KK just wanted kill all the OT heroes. But from my vantage point it's pretty clear that Ford himself wanted his character to die and Carrie's character *had* to be written out of the Saga since she herself passed. So you had Luke who was written to die as part of the story by the filmmakers themselves while the other two leads had to bow out for reasons that the writers and directors couldn't control.
Rather than get endlessly bent out of shape and spend my days contorting reality to fit my narrative I prefer to instead say "okay so how good a job did the writers do with the cards they were dealt?" And for the most part my answer tends to be "pretty damn good." No we didn't get Han, Luke, and Leia in the same scene again. But they did appear in the same movie. And we did get Han and Leia together and then Luke and Leia together. Plus Luke and R2, Luke and 3PO, Luke and Yoda, and Chewie and so forth.
I'm not gonna just arbitrarily write-off the entire trilogy because of one missed opportunity of reuniting the main three. Did the OT show Obi-Wan, Anakin, and Padme together?
No, each trilogy has its core heroes who operate together with those same heroes serving a different purpose in other trilogies. If I want to watch the big three together well I've got the OT for that.
At the end of the day I think that the actual scriptwriters (Abrams, Kasdan, RJ, and Terrio) greatly overruled whatever stupid agenda crap the "story group" might have been about and I do believe that all four would qualify as "true fans" of SW.