LOTRFan
The Grey Pilgrim
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I've lost quite a bit of money due to Josh as well. He's taken more than 2+ years on some of my commission and not delivered a single one. Part of me is angry but another part of me still feels sorry for him. Contrary to what Deckard and others might say, I do consider him a friend and I greatly sympathize with him. All of his family troubles were real and he's been through a lot these past few years. I know this doesn't excuse what he's done and it's frustrating hearing the deadlines about commissions and never seeing a single one in hand.
However, I will absolutely not file a complaint against Josh. It'll be pointless. The man is down; he's got nothing left. He's struggling to fend for himself and his family. What's the point? He won't be able to pay any of you back much less finish the commissions. I understand that some of you are beyond this point and do not care what happens to him but ask yourselves if this is worth it. And no, I'm not being a coward or whatever else some have called the folks who have stuck up for Josh in the past. I'm just trying to be reasonable. Hopefully Carl can get us most of our stuff back and finish this chapter.
I used to feel this way too, after meeting Josh at Comic Con I was really amazed by his talents; and I don't even collect action figures. They were just so damn impressive and I wanted to help him out so I comissioned a Joker and Rorscach figure - and stated at the time that he need to 1) charge more for the figures, to cover his expenses and 2) take on less commissions (which I believe #1 would have accomplished). His humility and persona really impressed me (even after 5 or 6 beers ) and I really liked who I met that night.
But then it all went south ...
Of course he got in over his head, and it seemed like he had another tragic story just about every week; but there really is no excuse for failing to ship items back after all this time. I gave him the benefit of the doubt for a few months; if my wife miscarried I wouldn't be shipping out toys either! But I was genuinely appaled when he frankly told me that if I were to just send him funds to pay for a flat rate shipping box that he would spend those funds elsewhere with a total lack of self-control. Who does this!? Salt in the wound is hearing and seeing his activities and items collected after all of this debacle.
Carl is good for it though, at least some of you have your items in his hands ---- I am ____ ____ed out of luck.