Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

[The Ween]

Love is overated.

I love you, Shai!!!

You know, having a broken heart only means that you have one. That's not such a bad thing.

Life is great, sometimes we put too much stock in some people & not enough in others. Concentrate on the ones that really love you. They are the ones worthy of your attention

 

[ChrisCJ99]

You know, having a broken heart only means that you have one. That's not such a bad thing.

Life is great, sometimes we put to much stock in some people & not enough in others. Concentrate on the ones that really love you. They are the ones worthy of your attention

Thanks man

This girl proclaims that she TRULY "loves" me, and I'm sure there's some truth to that..... But we all know that she obviously doesn't love me ENOUGH to work this out ..... Sorry, just a little bitter at this point. But I know I'm better off right now

 

[Valfar]

Love is overated.

EMO kids...

 

[MANGLORD]

Chicks don't like boning/dating drama queens. Stop being a queen and Move along. It's too bad you share the same friends. hanging out may get awkward especially when you start hearing about or meet the new dude thats taking a dip. Take time out from a relationship, get that degree, make more dough, buy more toys and bed hotter women.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Chicks don't like boning/dating drama queens. Stop being a queen and Move along. It's too bad you share the same friends. hanging out may get awkward especially when you start hearing about or meet the new dude thats taking a dip. Take time out from a relationship, get that degree, make more dough, buy more toys and bed hotter women.

Uh, thanks? Well I hate to admit, but she softened my up BIG TIME! She spoiled me to DEATH and in turn that made me lose some of my independence...... It's ironic, I always noticed how her mom pampered her too much and it made HER too soft. Now I'm the one that ultimately turned soft and now she's proclaiming that I'm just unattractive now since I depend on her too much..... Gee thanks!!!!

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Good luck man. Ceasing all contact is really the first step to be honest. Until you do that, its going to get worse, not better.

Gekko

Thanks man! Yeah, that's very true and I'm realizing how important this is..... I think the reason it's really tough to let go of (not to mention the fact that this is STILL ONLY a couple weeks old) is because I'm constantly talking about this and keeping it fresh in my mind. I talk to her family, friends, etc and I do nothing but harp on this all day, everyday.....

I've basically taken the advice of my friend to stop even talking ABOUT her with anyone. And if anyone even brings her up I'm just going to ask them to not bring her up AT ALL. That I don't care to hear how she's doing or ANYTHING involving her..... If she's gonna make all this effort to kick me out of her life then I should take the same initiative

 

[Black@ssB0lt]

One really hard thing for people of either gender to figure out is that when someone doesn't want you, you can't talk them into wanting you.

And even if you could, why would you want to? Why would you want a friend you have to argue into hanging out with you?


My money is on this: She has been controlling her family through mis-information, and you through your heart, ^^^^, and mis-information. She doesn't want to leave her friends back home because she is desperate for attention and too insecure to have to start training new friends for their various roles in her life. These types of people 'nest' in their social lives because it feeds their fantasies and keeps them from being alone long enough to start being introspective... which would drive them insane-er. If you had never left town, chances are you would still be with her, still being her slave.

Don't let this harden you, let it edjucate you as to what signs to look for in the personality of whomever you are getting involved with so you can better position them in you own life. Keep the trash by the door.

 

[The Ween]

The advice is getting better Chris!

Good luck with your degree and concentrate on that for now.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

The advice is getting better Chris!

Good luck with your degree and concentrate on that for now.

Thanks Ween! Yeah, I'm sorry about making any comments such as "F the hoes".... I'm really not one to degrade women AT ALL. All my life I've had female friends, which has made girls I dated really jealous..... But as you can tell, I'm just REALLY bitter at this point. And with reason! Luckily it COULD be worse and I find out the my ex left me for another guy, is sleeping around, etc etc. But fortunately it's not like that..... But when you've been under the impression that someone was SUPPOSED to be your best friend and you felt that you had that deep inner moral connection with them, you really believe that they MIGHT have stayed with you through the thick and thin.....
This is my FIRST long distance relationship and now I see what everyone is saying that they don't work out. Funny thing is that I was under the impression that I was going to be the one moving on and forgetting about her. But it was quite the contrary. My feelings were the ones to explode and she just felt lonely and "not up for the challenge"....
Oh well, I guess I will keep everyone posted It's really tough right now, and the quality of my work at school is suffering DRAMATICALLY But I'm just trying whatever I can. I came here because I don't have the privilege of having close friends near me to support me. So I'm really glad to say that you guys have really helped me out with the little that you know me so thank you to EVERYONE for lending me their ear

 

[knucklefunger]

Frank Zappa said "broken hearts are for a**holes"

Guess that makes me one as well, I'm fine with that

Just concentrate on yourself. It's not being selfish. It's ok. Focus on you, others will notice. If you think well of yourself so will others. If you think poorly of yourself, you'll manage to convince people that that is true also

Just be you, feel good & don't be afraid to love & be loved

 

[Shai]

I love you, Shai!!!

Prove it....

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Just concentrate on yourself. It's not being selfish. It's ok. Focus on you, others will notice. If you think well of yourself so will others. If you think poorly of yourself, you'll manage to convince people that that is true also

Just be you, feel good & don't be afraid to love & be loved

Very good viewpoint! I'm working on that

Thanks!!!

 

[El Roranous]

Religious... pass.


Dirty girls are more fun.

 

[Shai]

Well Jen is a religious girl and she can be quite the Freak....

 

[Skiman]

Alcohol is a powerful drug, "with great power comes great responsibility"

 

[El Roranous]

Well Jen is a religious girl and she can be quite the Freak....

Yeah she does mow her lawn quite often.

 

[BadMoon]

Yeah she does mow her lawn quite often.

OMFG!

 

[Shai]

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Thanks you A hole....high five

 

[Black@ssB0lt]

...So I heard that Faramir is gay