Eh, I wouldn't go that far. BvS has tons of problems but boring ain't one of them. Messy? Yes. Not faithful to the source material? Yes (the first person to post a scan from 1943 showing Batman use a gun, or the infamous KGBeast scene, gets an internet slap). Disjointed and more concerned about "setting up" everything so that they can compete with the MCU? Sure. But boring? Nah. The CW shows are hella boring for example. But BvS, with all of its faults, is "exciting" in a way. It keeps you glued to the screen.
As for AoU, I didn't hate it, but I don't really want to see it again. Maybe a complication of Cap's scenes (cause EvansCap is even better than 616-Cap), but that's it. BvS, I certainly want to see again, albeit the R-Cut. The film certainly was worse in my second viewing, but the Batman scenes were just as, if not more, awesome. Do I have problems with the characterization? Sure. But it's Moon Bat kicking *** and taking names, who doesn't love that?!
As for the Todd-is-Joker theories, yeah, they do seem much more likely now. It also explains why Batman hasn't killed him yet. I mean, there's no way he'd bring himself to kill his son. And the Robins are his sons. Problem is, Quinn isn't created by the Joker, but by Todd, which is okay, I guess, but eh... Still, like with Eisenberg, it leaves the door open for Joker Sr. to appear if they go down that route.