Tbh tinder sucks. It’s just a bunch of girls saying “ they made it by accident I’m not like normal girls, I’m not looking for a hook up, I’m here to meet new people, if you have a dog we can be friends”
Then once you talk to them they either want something serious and get mad when you don’t, don’t say a word and can’t hold a convo, or just don’t say anything. Most of the time they want to just hook up lol . It’s a mess
I read that women say "NOT looking for a hook up, Just want to be friends" as a way to weed out the losers, the freaks the betas and the weirdos.
Because the Alpha chads will still ask for *** and they of course say yes. but the creepy shy nerdy needy guys buy the line and stay away