Re: LES WALKER - All NEW Custom Works 2009
I think it's important that everyone understand where a post like that from Les is coming from. That is a building frustration pouring out of Les, but I think it's important people understand where that's coming from.
You can believe me and others who have and will say the same or not, that's your call, but I swear to everyone, it has eaten away at Les' soul that his work for you has gotten as behind as it has because A) it's not the type of businessman he wants to be known here as, and B) art is his passion, and his inability to do your work ammounts to inability to do any art, his passion has been taken away from him but uncontrollable circumstances that most of us won't for a long time, if every, experience. I've seen my father go through the same, and I don't care how tough you are everyday, when the people who gave you life and brought you up go through a situation like his mom is, it beats you down.
The man's fighting to do the right things by his mom and family and it's affecting him emotionally because sometimes it's a lose-lose battle no matter what you do or try, and he's doing great things and the best any one can be expected to in that situation, but the situation makes him feel like he can't win.
One thing that's been keeping him going is having the goal of finally coming through on the work he owes you guys, it's his light at the end of this dark tunnel. It drives him forward to think of the upset and dissappointed customers he's got from this situation and changing your feelings by finally coming through for you and not leaving you hanging, and deep from his heart he is giving it everything he's got, between the quality of the paint work he's doing and the efforts to keep you guys as up to date as possible on where things are at. A lot of what he's told this board recently, he's asked me in the past not to share with you when he's talked to me about it, it was very personal and private to him, but ultimately he felt it fairest to you to share it all so you were fully in the know about why your things are late. That's his committment to doing right by everyone.
When you're going through emotional hell like he is, and you look for something to give you purpose and comfort and a goal and a way to make yourself feel you're doing right by someone, and then even that is gone, it cuts your legs out from under you, and that's what some of the posts made in disgruntlement do to him.
The situation Les is going through, I truly hope people around here don't go through, it's a painful torture on the soul that no person should ever have to go through, and it really snaps you into perspective. If anything good can come of it, it's at least and appreciation for the more important things in life, and that's where Les is at, a point where "toys" don't feel like that important a thing to him to have in his life, and being faced with that reality, because truthfully, I'll agree, I love collecting but in the end all of this STUFF is just bull^^^^ and unimportant, there are greater, more important things in life, and because he's seeing the more important aspects of life, he's hoping that those of you waiting can see that there are greater things in life than the heads or whatever you've transacted with him for.
Now that's not saying forget it and move on with your lives, no, no, by all means be eager for your items, be expressive of your concerns as to where things are at with your stuff, but at the same time, have the sympathy/empathy/compassion to understand where he's at and what he's fighting to get your stuff to you, and to put your trust in him that he's not bull^^^^ting you when he says stuff's coming, and compared to the shady deals I've seen go down on this board, I see plenty out of Les to trust in. Most shady deals end up that the seller or whoever is nowhere to be found, doesn't post any sort of reason for delays or absence of items, give pictures of items as they're finished, they just become ghosts and it takes a witch hunt to bring about resolution. All that's needed with Les is trust right now. Realize that with all he's been through, if he weren't going to deliver for you guys, he'd have said ^^^^ it and walked away by now, he wouldn't be posting here to give you hope like he's trying.
Ultimately, the message here is, not that you're in the wrong to be wondering where your stuff is, that is your right as a paying customer, but just to have trust that despite being upset you don't have it yet, it is coming, as fast as is humanly possible for him under his circumstances, and if you feel the need to post around here with inquiry, fine, but at least use a tact of not going for the kill when a simple slap upside the head is enough.
If you feel negatively about Les as a businessman, that's your call as a customer, but all you need to do around here is post in the commerce thread when your transaction is complete that you are dissatisfied, post whatever your comment is there, that's why that section exists, and if someone ever asks you for your opinion say your peace, but out of context in a thread like this, it's just a soul beating, unproductive use of a post.