Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

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Treat them like a 5 year old. They want attention & act poorly to get it. Many are painfully superficial. You aren't an accessory dude. Don't act like one. A companion isn't a person of convenience. You are better than that. Tell her to "jog on"

Very well said :lecture
 
Treat them like a 5 year old. They want attention & act poorly to get it. Many are painfully superficial. You aren't an accessory dude. Don't act like one. A companion isn't a person of convenience. You are better than that. Tell her to "jog on"

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Chris, you need to watch this...


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Well, just another quick update.... I just spoke to the lady on the phone, and the conversation ended with me saying "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!" :mad:

She went on saying how she though we couldn't work because I was going to be a "mean father" and financially irresponsible........ I offered MANY solutions to everything but yet it's all not good enough for her...... :mad: :mad: :mad:
 
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Chris, it's not you that's confused. She is. A lot of chicks behave like children (sorry ladies), but it's true.

They get close, then push you away just to see if you'll chase em down & kiss their ...., that way they've got you. They now dictate the terms of the relationship. They own you.

A healthy relationship involves both people working together not one controlling it.

Man, like Dio sings "walk away"

Please, there are women on this board so please don't go into generalizations. Alot of men act like children too. And do the very things that some are saying here.

Not all women act alike and neither do men.

This girl is confused about what she wants. Best just to leave her alone. She asked for space. Give it to her.
 
Well, just another quick update.... I just spoke to the lady on the phone, and the conversation ended with me saying "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!" :mad:

She went on saying how she though we couldn't work because I was going to be a "mean father" and financially irresponsible........ I offered MANY solutions to everything but yet it's all not good enough for her...... :mad: :mad: :mad:

looks like you dodged a bullet there :horror
 
Well, just another quick update.... I just spoke to the lady on the phone, and the conversation ended with me saying "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!" :mad:

She went on saying how she though we couldn't work because I was going to be a "mean father" and financially irresponsible........ I offered MANY solutions to everything but yet it's all not good enough for her...... :mad: :mad: :mad:

This ^^ is what I was trying to avoid :tap Stop with solutions and start with more space.
 
Well, just another quick update.... I just spoke to the lady on the phone, and the conversation ended with me saying "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!" :mad:

She went on saying how she though we couldn't work because I was going to be a "mean father" and financially irresponsible........ I offered MANY solutions to everything but yet it's all not good enough for her...... :mad: :mad: :mad:

Good... now you made one huge mistake... you talked to her! :banghead

You told her to leave you alone.. now you HAVE TO not call her,email,text... even if she contacts you.... forget about her and move on... or I guaruntee you will regret it, and only prolong your misery.

It's difficult but you have to suck it up and NOT talk to her... even if she calls you!

We're all trying to help because we've been there.
 
Ween, didn't mean to offend but I for one am tired of being treated like an ATM. Yeah a lot of guys act like kids especially when we don't get our way. Hell many never outgrow the need for "toys", look at this forum for a literal example

You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself

I'll treat a woman like she's the only one that matters because to me that's how it should be, BUT, if I'm not gonna make a fool of myself either. Far to many women have such low self esteems, their need to feel needed outshines their need for self respect

Sorry, but this is sadly true

Far to many guys watch a couple of porns & expect women to behave the same way

Greatest thing any woman can give a guy is her time, its precious,
the greatest thing a guy can give a woman is his undivided attention
 
Kinda difficult for that info to come her way when she's all the way across the country..... :eek:

But I don't wanna be that kind of person to do something like that just to rub it in her face..... If the girl was a total ^^^^^ and did some messed up things to me, then I wouldn't care maybe. But she was a sweet girl, so there's no need for something like that.... I've dated vindictive girls and it's not fun playing the game. I just didn't think I'd have to stoop to this level with THIS girl :sick

Nice guys finish lasts.
 
See, alot of the things you guys are saying, I, and I'm sure some of the other ladies, have said the same things about men.

Nice guys finish last, well, I could say the same thing about me. I've been told by men that I've been involved with that I'm too nice. :confused:

I've dated guys that wanted me to be their mama. Tell them what to do, when to do it. My brother is kinda that way. He married a woman who controls him, and he likes it that way. Some people thrive on drama, I'm just not one of them.

There's someone for everyone out there, we just have to jump through hoops and get our hearts broken to find them. That's the sucky part.

 
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