GondorGirl
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I completely disagree with that, I am in a long term relationship and I know that me and my partner love each other deeply and unconditionally. Perhaps what you say is true for you but certainly not everyone.
Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???
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I completely disagree with that, I am in a long term relationship and I know that me and my partner love each other deeply and unconditionally. Perhaps what you say is true for you but certainly not everyone.
Skiman
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I think he is meaning that there's less likely to happen or it is less these days not that it doesn't exist at all...
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I think it's more of in the old days.. Love is all you need/needed. Today's hustle and bustle world people need a lot more. People don't stick together for just Love.. thats apparent in this society. It's all a bunch of crap if you ask me.
Move on.. it's really the best thing.
Move on.. it's really the best thing.
It's really funny you guys mention this whole "love isn't enough" thing..... Because that's the EXACT line that I've been hearing from her for a little while now.... That love isn't enough for us..... That we need better communication.....
Freakin retarded if you ask me....... Obviously if there WAS enough love there then you'd be willing to WORK at better communication, right????
GondorGirl
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I think he meant what he said, 'real love doesn't exist anymore' to which I disagree
It's really funny you guys mention this whole "love isn't enough" thing..... Because that's the EXACT line that I've been hearing from her for a little while now.... That love isn't enough for us..... That we need better communication.....
Freakin retarded if you ask me....... Obviously if there WAS enough love there then you'd be willing to WORK at better communication, right????
When you add instances such as that I think that maybe you two have just grown apart, y'know? Like 'love is not enough', because it has just turned into a habitiual thing to say to each other. What do you think?
GondorGirl
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Skiman
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I think he meant what he said, 'real love doesn't exist anymore' to which I disagree
Ok then I agree with u then... Well have to c what he says.
I think he meant what he said, 'real love doesn't exist anymore' to which I disagree
When you add instances such as that I think that maybe you two have just grown apart, y'know? Like 'love is not enough', because it has just turned into a habitiual thing to say to each other. What do you think?
I agree..... Sadly
The one thing that cannot be ignored is the fact that our relationship has changed DRAMATICALLY. I mean, we've been physically away from each other for almost 7 months now. We've seen each other on a monthly basis, but we all know that gets old over time, and EXPENSIVE! So sad to say, but we most likely HAVE grown apart.... But the thing is that I am trying really hard to fight it... Just because I THOUGHT it was worth it She doesn't share the same optimism..... Funny thing is, every time I mention that I'm going to see her when I'm in town, she agrees that she wants to..... So I know that if we fix the distance somehow it will work out for the better.... She even repeatedly admits that she wishes I had never left
Guess it's just someone's way of dealing with the distance? 
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Ween, I had. She took her own life.
I firmly believe we only fall in love once. That's the person we grow old with. The person we never abandon, & if it means having to bathe & change someone, then we do it.
People see relationships as business partnerships now. Less concern with love than with appearances & cash. Sad, but it seems to be true
Women
Only a coward would hurt em, or a fool would desert em
I firmly believe we only fall in love once. That's the person we grow old with. The person we never abandon, & if it means having to bathe & change someone, then we do it.
People see relationships as business partnerships now. Less concern with love than with appearances & cash. Sad, but it seems to be true
Women
Only a coward would hurt em, or a fool would desert em
GondorGirl
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I agree..... Sadly
Funny thing is, every time I mention that I'm going to see her when I'm in town, she agrees that she wants to..... So I know that if we fix the distance somehow it will work out for the better.... She even repeatedly admits that she wishes I had never left
Well at least your accepting this is prolly happening, I have had friends before who have held on and held on for YEARS without making the realisations that you are now...TBH it sounds like the relationship is over, that doesn't mean it will be over forever, just for now.
By the sounds of it she is blaming you for leaving so she can alleviate the guilt she is feeling for not feeling the same way about you. But like I said there is no saying it is over forvever, but it does sound like it is over for now, move on and enjoy your summer, I am sure it is beautiful weather over there, meet new people and go out with your friends., not to forget here but simply not to dwell on her
Skiman
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Well at least your accepting this is prolly happening, I have had friends before who have held on and held on for YEARS without making the realisations that you are now...TBH it sounds like the relationship is over, that doesn't mean it will be over forever, just for now.
By the sounds of it she is blaming you for leaving so she can alleviate the guilt she is feeling for not feeling the same way about you. But like I said there is no saying it is over forvever, but it does sound like it is over for now, move on and enjoy your summer, I am sure it is beautiful weather over there, meet new people and go out with your friends., not to forget her but simply not to dwell on her
Listen Chris, been saying that since my first post.
GondorGirl
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Listen Chris, been saying that since my first post.
Sorry Ski
I must confess I only skimmed the first few pages...then again they do say that copying is the sincerest form of flattery 
Skiman
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Sorry Ski
Oh no, no need to apologize just tryn to steer Chris is the right direction. I can all ready see the contact with his ex has made things worse. Space is the right thing and not dwelling. It's time to focus on yourself Chris
GondorGirl
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Oh no, no need to apologize just tryn to steer Chris is the right direction. I can all ready see the contact with his ex has made things worse. Space is the right thing and not dwelling. It's time to focus on yourself Chris
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Great advice 
Saya
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thats generalizing and i just cant agree. maybe for a percentage of the population its like that but Im proof positive that real love DOES exist. and I think in many cases it does. maybe you just havent encountered it much. I have been married and loved my husb. for 15 yr. and loved him for well over that. I dont think I could survive losing him. Im sorry you dont believe it exists anymore.
Skiman
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to that!!!
-Super Hans-
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what would be your definition of love though?? people have different opinions on what love actually is.
my idea of love is a bj in the morning
but thats just me 
