So to summarise:
- Most people are idiots except you. The rest of us can't recognise facial features because we don't know how to SEE.
- Your mate shaved off his facial hair after years and no one could tell what happened, followed up by the contradiction that people only look at the superficial, such as facial hair.
Well , no you mis-understand....people see in other people a character of what they are......they see what they expect to see....not always what is there....
And I do not recall calling anyone an *****...I said "But MOST people are happy with characterization cause that's all they really see, in other word most people look but do not SEE." How that translates into *****...I am not sure.
Similar to an old couple still seeing each other as young versions of themselves to each other...while the rest of the world sees 2 old people.
The analogy to my buddy's missing beard was to illustrate that people still SAW him as they expected.....beard or no beard.